Judgmental Power.

No one will believe your story that tell by you. People will believe it from a third party.

Sometimes it is so hard for people to have trust in you, and same goes as for you to have trust in someone. As a start, who am I for people to believe in?

It is sad when you try to convince people with your genuine story, no one wants to believe in you. While when the same story is told by someone else, they believe it instantly.

Sad? But the truth. It is worst, if the story is been twisted.

How many people have fallen because of rumours spread by stranger? Or perhaps someone they know.

Who you are today is what you have been taught, what you have experienced, what you have learned, and you decide to stay as who you are.

Based on who you are, you attracts the same quality of people towards you. You will notice that, whoever that can click with you, they definitely have some habits or behaviours that is similar to yours. There is a saying said: "Be careful of who you mix with, you definitely become them."

Human perception on another human always start from the appearance.

A gentleman with shirt and tie doesn't mean he is carrying a bouquet of flower behind him.
A homeless man on the street doesn't mean he is carrying a knife behind him.
It might be the reverse.

We judge too fast, and realize so little. We believe bad story easily than believe in the good one.
Take time to review everything, believe with own judgement. Don't listen blindly to story utter by third party.